Every now and then I find myself sitting on the couch at the
end of a long day with Ian and I am completely overwhelmed at what we have been
called to do. That happened this
week when we got our 5th set of twins. Yes, 13% of all our children are twins (two fraternal, two
boys, one girls).
We now have 76 children, under the age of 3.5 years, living
at Project Canaan and we get a baby on average every 12.5 days. Fifteen of our children are under the
age of 6-months (!), seven are HIV positive and many are underweight and/or
developmentally delayed (often those two things are directly linked).
Two weeks ago I wrote a blog about a set of twins that we
found out in the rural community.
You can read the details at http://janinemaxwell.blogspot.com/2014/09/you-just-never-know-what-is-going-to.html. On Friday, October 3rd I
picked up Lori Marschall and Janice Johnson at the airport and then headed
straight to Siteki to pick up a baby (Eliza) from the hospital. As it turned out we were asked to take
two babies that day and after the paper work was done and babies fed we headed
back to Project Canaan.
On our way home I got a call from the mother of the twins in
the blog noted above. She was
crying because she and the baby girl had been discharged and she still didn’t
have any money to pay to get out or take a bus home. Somehow the hospital didn’t
have record of the $32 US bill I had paid the week before and now she owed
another $8.70 US for her and her baby’s 5-day stay at the hospital. We stopped in, cleaned up the confusion
and the bill and gave her bus fare to get her home. We promised to bring the male twin to her on Monday with the
police, as they were the ones who took the baby in the first place.
We had a team of people here this past week so I tasked
Helen and Shongwe to go to the police station and get an officer to go with
them to return the child to the mother. Two hours later they arrived back at my house with
both twins (!). What? Yes, they found the mother lying on the
ground outside and the baby alone inside.
She was no longer breast-feeding and there was no formula so the baby
was only being given water. She
was almost down to her birth weight (4.1 lbs) at 3-weeks old and it was clear
that she was dehydrated. The
21-year old mother also has a 4-year old and a 5-year old (who was recently
raped by her Uncle) and did not want these babies at all. The alleged father of
the babies has turned off his phone and has not been in contact with the mother
since she first told him she was pregnant.
Photo of "Robert" being returned to his mother. |
I am told there were several phone calls between the police
and the Social Welfare officer and the mother and finally Helen and Shongwe
were asked by the family and the government to take the children – a report,
paperwork and a court order would follow right behind.
Bernice and Robert arrived at Project Canaan. |
Some of you are wondering why we would do this? Why wouldn't we try to help the mother
instead of taking the babies? And
those are valid questions. There have been cases where we did invite the mother
and children to live at the Kibbutz so that they could stay together. This situation presented itself
differently and sometimes we just have to go with our “gut” and rely on the
wisdom and background knowledge that the officers involved are aware of, even
if it is not shared with us.
We have named the babies Bernice and Robert. They were born on September 15th, which is the same birth day as my Mom (Bernice Willis) and that is also Ian's birthday. Robert Smucker was with us on the day we first found the babies so we have named the boy Robert in honor of our dear friend, and brother Robert Smucker.
That night I was overwhelmed. So many little mouths to feed (150+ bottles per
day alone), so many diapers to change (400+ every day), so many children to
provide for and love for life.
There are so many moving parts here, so many operational challenges,
staffing challenges and funding challenges.
Ian is landing in the US today for the Annual Heart for
Africa Board meeting, so I have a couple of weeks alone here on the farm. This
morning in my quiet time I watched a video that was released by the Egg Farmers
of Canada yesterday http://youtu.be/8MuEzmmhM1E about Heart for Africa and their partnership with us. It was so great to see the faces of our
children, but also all the faces of the Swazi’s who are here caring for the
babies and volunteers who come and help.
As I watched I saw the farm workers, the dairy workers and the Khutsala
Artisans and knew that they are all a direct part of helping us with this
daunting task. Then there are the Egg Farmers of Canada themselves who are
coming to help, and the US Bank and UPS people who were just here helping, and there
are more people on their way. These are God's children and He is their Father - He must send the people and we pray that those who are called will say "yes".
We are not in this alone and we are not called
to do it on our own. It takes a
village to raise a child, and these children are being raised by a global
village. There are days that even
I think we are crazy, but maybe “crazy” is a good thing under the
circumstances?
Thank you for your prayers and support. We do
need financial support for the last SIX children who have come to us in the
past month so if you would consider becoming a monthly donor we would very much
appreciate your direct assistance.
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In Canada please click here.
Live from Swaziland … this is a busy place.
Janine
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